Dating an indecisive man
If you are ever dating a Scorpio man, you will see that he is very devoted and feels strongly about you.Part of his mystique is his potential for sudden infatuations and then suddenly losing interest, only to come back again at full force.After being with Jason for a few months, I knew I needed to decide where it was all going.I was hesitant, but because I really wanted to be with him, Can’t Make Up Her Mind Mama swooped in and allowed me to make excuses for his bad behavior and focus disproportionately on his good behavior.
If you’re taking her out, then she will expect that YOU are taking her out and have made the decision, booked the restaurant, or theatre and know where you’re going for drinks afterwards.It’s just a harsh fact of being in love with someone.(*Notice I wrote “committed relationship.” In a casual, not serious, whatevs kind of relationship, the decisive person wins for the simple fact that he or she decides to get the f*#k out of said relationship.) The person who can never make up their mind always “needs time to think” or “time to ponder” or “time to mull.” And to push that non-decisive person into making a decision is seen as “aggressive”, “not supportive,” or just plain “mean.” So even though the decisive person is made to wait, white-knuckle style, for the love of their life to make a g*ddamn decision, any sort of cajoling to hurry up and pull the trigger on a decision – any decision – is perceived as being a jerk.There are two types of people in a relationship: One who can make up his or her mind. And the one who can’t always wins the relationship. If you are in a committed relationship,* the one who just can’t make up his or her mind always wins. You might think the person who can make up his or her mind is the victor in the relationship (and if you don’t think there is any winning or losing in a relationship, then you have clearly never been one in), but you would be wrong.
Sharon is strong minded, quick witted, intelligent, funny and assertive, and that can be a lot to handle for a man, however we compliment each other perfectly which is why our marriage has worked so well and continues to get stronger..